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After the birth

Postpartum (mazal tov!) review!

Mazal tov! As Family Purity points out, during pregnancy the laws of separation are usually not in force, so after the birth it’s very important to review them. Here is everything to review, on one page: each chapter, free to read online, followed by its 10 review questions from the Study Guide for Choson & Kallah.

Your review

These are the chapters, and this is the material we recommend for you. For each one: open the chapter and read it, then answer its 10 questions right below. Tap an answer to see whether it's right and the page in Family Purity where it's explained.

A quick refresher

The one-page overview of the month shows the whole cycle, step by step. For any practical question after the birth, please ask an orthodox rabbi expert in these laws.

Chapter 15

Birth

The laws before and after childbirth, and after a miscarriage.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. Does the onset of contractions require behaving as if the wife is niddah?

  2. Contractions have progressed to the point where the wife finds it difficult to walk, and asks for assistance. Does the wife enter the niddah state?

  3. The amniotic sac's bursting _____.

  4. Birth causes the niddah state.

  5. The husband _____ be present in the same room with his wife during delivery.

  6. After the birth of a daughter which of the following best describes what's required prior to immersing in the mikveh?

  7. Do all the laws of separation observed during menstruation apply after birth as well?

  8. Is the niddah state caused by birth considered when calculating the next anticipated menstruation (vestos)?

  9. Does a miscarriage result in the niddah state?

  10. Which of the following is true regarding a miscarriage which occurred up to and including the fortieth day of pregnancy?

Next: Chapter 4, Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder ↓

Chapter 4

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

The laws of separation, which apply again after the birth.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. A woman who became niddah remains so until immersing in a mikveh, in accordance with halacha, even if many years have passed.

  2. The husband is _____ be lenient in some of the laws of separation in order to persuade his wife to immerse in the mikveh.

  3. A couple feels sure that leniency regarding one of the laws of separation will not create any feelings of intimacy whatsoever. Are they permitted to be lenient in that particular law?

  4. Direct body contact is _____.

  5. Holding a common object which does not move, e.g. a table, is _____.

  6. The husband's touching the clothing being worn by his niddah wife, or vice versa, is _____.

  7. Tossing an object one to the other is _____.

  8. Eating on the same table is permissible when _____.

  9. It is _____ for the husband to smell perfume on his niddah wife's body.

  10. To hear one's niddah wife singing is _____.

Next: Chapter 5, Making Sure Menstruation Has Finished ↓

Chapter 5

Making Sure Menstruation Has Finished

The hefsek tahara: checking that bleeding has stopped.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. The purpose of the hefsek tahara is to establish _____.

  2. The hefsek tahara is a _____ examination.

  3. From when is it permissible to perform the hefsek tahara?

  4. The minimum five days applies _____.

  5. The wife is certain that bleeding has stopped. Does she still need to perform the hefsek tahara?

  6. Prior to performing the hefsek tahara, ideally, _____.

  7. Ideally, the examination should be performed with _____.

  8. When an impure color is found, the hefsek tahara may be repeated with a clean examination cloth until a clean result is obtained. This must be done before _____.

  9. A hefsek tahara performed a few minutes after sunset is _____.

  10. The wife did not perform the hefsek tahara before candle lighting.

Next: Chapter 6, Seven White Days ↓

Chapter 6

Seven White Days

The seven clean days: the daily examinations and white garments.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. The seven white day period is _____.

  2. The seven white day period must form an uninterrupted block of seven days free from menstrual bleeding.

  3. There _____ leniency in the laws of separation during the seven white day period.

  4. Choose the correct following statement.

  5. During the first three days a stain cannot be dismissed as coming from a bruise.

  6. During the seven white days, the wife's bed sheets _____.

  7. During the seven white days the wife ideally checks _____.

  8. A wife did not perform all the examinations. Her seven white day period is nonetheless valid, as long as she checked _____.

  9. A stain seen during the seven white days obligates _____.

  10. When the seven white days do not immediately precede the evening of the mikveh, if it does not cause problems, it is sound advice to check during the interim days.

Next: Chapter 7, Preparing for Immersion ↓

Chapter 7

Preparing for Immersion

Hafifah: preparing the body for the mikveh, including the hair, nails and teeth.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. For the immersion in the mikveh to be valid, _____.

  2. Preparation for immersion, hafifah, is _____ in origin.

  3. When a limited amount of hot water is available for hafifah, _____.

  4. Nails must be trimmed _____.

  5. Nail polish _____.

  6. Choose the correct statement.

  7. After using soaps and shampoos it is important _____.

  8. Permanent tooth fillings, dentures and crowns are cleaned the same as natural teeth in preparation for immersion.

  9. A subcutaneous bruise _____ affect immersion.

  10. Ideally, hafifah begins during the day and continues into the night. When hafifah during the day was not possible _____.

Next: Chapter 8, Intervening Substances ↓

Chapter 8

Intervening Substances

Intervening substances (chatzitzah) that can invalidate the immersion.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. Scripturally, a substance is considered to be intervening, between the person and the mikveh water when _____.

  2. In assessing whether the substance covers the majority of the body _____.

  3. The hair _____ when considering if a substance covers its majority.

  4. The wife is wearing a small bit of jewelry, such as a thin loose bracelet. She does not usually remove it while bathing or showering. Does she need to remove it before immersing?

  5. Which is more problematic, halachically?

  6. Perspiration causing _____ of the hair on her head or under the armpits to cling invalidates the immersion.

  7. The wife's negligently not removing lice from her hair invalidates the immersion.

  8. Which poses more of a halachic obstacle to immersing?

  9. One fingernail remained uncut when she immersed in the mikveh. Should the wife cut it and immerse again?

  10. The night following immersion has passed, and the wife discovered that one fingernail was left uncut. The immersion is _____.

Next: Chapter 10, Immersion ↓

Chapter 10

Immersion

The immersion in the mikveh: when it takes place, the blessing, and what follows.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. When the husband is present, immersing as soon as halachically permissible is _____.

  2. The night of immersion is a private matter best kept discreetly between husband and wife.

  3. Immersion must be after _____.

  4. If the night of the immersion coincides with a night of anticipated menstruation, e.g. the Monthly Cycle, or an Interval Cycle, _____.

  5. The immersion falls on the night of Yom Kippur:

  6. A female supervisor at least _____ years old is to be present.

  7. Ideally, immersion should be performed with intention, (kavanah).

  8. Between the blessing and immersing _____.

  9. The eyes _____.

  10. After immersing, _____.

Next: Chapter 14, Time of the Anticipated Menstruation ↓

Chapter 14

Time of the Anticipated Menstruation

The separation dates (vestos) recorded and calculated every month.

1. The material

2. Review: 10 questions 0 of 10 answered

  1. The responsibility to record the ongoing menstrual appearance and its cessation is _____.

  2. A wife who is certain that she intuitively knows when her menstruation will appear _____.

  3. Regarding these laws, daytime and nighttime are considered from _____.

  4. To observe these laws it is necessary to calculate according to the Hebrew, lunar, calendar.

  5. The examination on these dates is _____.

  6. Blood found during one of these examinations _____.

  7. The Monthly Cycle represents _____.

  8. On the Monthly Cycle separation is observed for _____.

  9. The Interval Cycle, according to Chabad custom, reflects the number of half days (onahs,) from _____.

  10. Which general rule is correct?

You have reached the end of the review. Mazal tov, and may you enjoy much nachas!

These questions are for review. For any practical question in these laws, please ask an orthodox rabbi expert in them, or ask Rabbi Jacobs privately.